Category Archives for "Purpose"

“Someone once told me the definition of hell; on your last day on earth, the person you could have become will meet the person you became.” The sad thing? From a purely statistical perspective, you’re probably going to end up becoming this person. It’s not that you’ll a bad life, but you’ll just fall so well short of your […]

It just doesn’t seem real, does it? Some of the outcomes you’ve seen people get from self-improvement just seem too good to be true, surreal, impossible. On the one hand, you can kinda sorta maybe picture yourself doing something amazing with your life. Daydreaming about it feels good. But reality sets in and all that […]

I know how you feel. I really do. You want a better life, but it’s hard, truly hard to pull off. You’re trying to find direction and clarity. You’ve experienced the stops and starts, ups and downs, moments where you’re elated and moments where you want to quit. You’re wondering whether or not any of […]

I get so irritated with myself sometimes. Why? Because I wonder why I don’t execute on every single thing I want to do in life one hundred percent of the time without fail. I wonder why I should ever care what people think about me at all, ever. I get irritated because I’m acutely aware […]

I have a simple philosophy in life I’ve learned from people much smarter than me. Watch the people you don’t want to be like, and do the opposite of what they do. I’m not trying to be a dick, but I have more than enough examples to last a million lifetimes. Let’s call a spade […]

“Big dreams aren’t meant for everyone.” As a self-help writer, I get this comment at least once a day. The funny thing? I agree with them. Statistics say that success is meant for a few people. Does it have to be that way? No. But that’s the way it is. Why? Because it’s hard to create […]

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Your problem isn’t what you think it is. You think your lack of motivation is why you can’t seem to find your purpose. Incorrect. You think your lack of direction, clarity, and guidance is why you can’t find your purpose. Is that part of it? Sure, but it’s still not quite right. Why are you […]

“Work at your job and make a living. Work on yourself and make a fortune” – Jim Rohn Self-improvement is the cheat code to life. Once you understand it at a deep level, the entire universe opens up to you. No, reading self-help books won’t magically turn you into a millionaire, but it’s not a […]

I have a bunch of weird, irrational, and seemingly useless little habits and tricks that greatly improve the quality of my life. What am I talking about? I track calories using My Fitness Pal. Sometimes, I will purposefully leave out some of the foods I ate. In general, I’ll be in a calorie deficit for […]